Hey guys! So teenage movies about highschool or maybe school in general have drilled this idea of drama into our mind. This can really effect so people negatively and take away our focus from academics. So here are some of the things that I have learned about dealing with drama at school
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1. Don't let it get to you
Don't think about it much and don't react unless it's like standing up for yourself, then you should absolutely do that. But if you stop reacting then they will stop getting the pleasure of being the cause for that reaction. If it really starts getting to you talk with a trusted adult. Your teacher, you parents. But let them know what is making you sad and ask them for advice.
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2. Don't talk behind someone's back
So, we all have know how it feels when someone talks behind our back. It's hurtful. So, you should not do it either!! It would leave no difference between you and them. If you know something can hurt someone then why would you do that. With all things going on you might find it tempting BUT DONT!
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3. Don't get involved
We all know that prevention is better than cure. So if can avoid drama, then avoid it! If someone you know is involved then don't go out of your way to get involved! Why do you even want to get involved in it at the first place?
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4. Don't start it
Don't say something that can be turned against you or someone and then start a whole downwards spiral. And be mindful of whom you say what to, be aware of the people around you. If someone is trying to get you in a fight or something like that politely excuse yourself. Or if someone talking about someone in a negative light then do not contribute.
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5. Be direct
If you find out something that hurts you and is about you then find the root of it. And confront the person directly about the cause of the negative feelings between you two. Try to be as polite and possible and avoid turning it into a fight at all costs. Try to make it a peaceful discussion. If they start a fight then tell them that you don't want it deal with it in that way and that you can talk again when they can talk to you calmly and in a sensible manner.
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Thank you so much for reading, hope you have a great day / night and also this is just my advice before using it make sure that it makes the situation better and not worse as everything really depends on the situation.
If the drama gets to a point where it bullying, you should speak up, stand up and tell an adult. Cause bullying is really really really really really really really really really really really......
BAD!
See you around!
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Comments (27)
that's really helpful thank u so much :pray:
Glad you found it helpful! :two_hearts:
Hey, can I ask if you have any advice about classmates not accepting my offer to help, friends who are basically been my friends for years and they basically formed a bubble I can't relate to and finally, not acting so weird in front of people not my friends, I just want to tone it down a bit.
Also, can I come to you for advice when I need it?
Hi! I always avoid drama but this year there r rumors going on that someone likes me! Whenever that guy is around my friend always annoys me and tries to set us up. What do I do now?
If you are not interested then try telling them politely that you're not interested and would really appreciate it if you guys can just be friends. And tell your friends that it's bothering you when they try to set you up, and ask them to help you outta the situation. But that's just the general advice that I can give. It all depends on the situation really, analysis it or maybe ask a adult?
Reply to: Ann [ hiatus ]
Thx for the advice! I will definitely try it
Umm.. This blog is great,but it would have been much better if this was about "what to do when you are already involved in drama"(and mind you, I am not that stupid to involve in it by myself, infact I was dragged into this. I was portrayed as a bad character for something I didn't do)
Reply to: Ann [ hiatus ]
Oh no! I didn't mean in an offensive way. I agree with all the tips and that you shouldn't involve at all that's why i mentioned that i didn't deliberately tried to :sweat_smile: (trust me, i tried my best not to :'( ).But i was just saying what should you do when your already involved in it. :no_mouth:
Reply to: Sakura
Oh honey, no offence take. If you need advice on what to do when you are already involved then you can pm me about that. I will try my best to help ^^
Reply to: Ann [ hiatus ]
Glad that you didn't :sweat_smile: and also glad that you are open to help!( plz ignore my wrong English..if any :no_mouth: )
If you find out something that hurts you and is about you then find the root of it. And confront the person directly about the cause of the negative feelings between you two.
I'm too afraid to confront someone and ask why they don't like me...idk why
It's not about someone liking you or not, you should confront them when they start spreading rumours or something like that. If the dislike you (but don't do anything) then it's fine! trying to please everyone is the mantra to failure.